So I finally got around to doing the meyers briggs test. Got kidlet to do her's as well. I was curious to see if my type would have changed at all from the first time I took the test about 10 years ago, but I remain the same. I am an INFP, or Healer Idealist based on the Jungian archtypes. Pretty much dead on for me. I have taken both the test on the keirsey site as well as this one and came up with INFP on both. This site also offers a test but it charges for it. So I recommending doing the above two test and then using the last site for the readings on your type. Kiddo bean ended up being an ENFJ which makes her an idealist as well. We are sympatico ;)
The ex of the husband variety was an INTJ if I remember correctly. Certainly sounds like one to me. Can't recall if the ex of the boyfriend variety ever took it or what he was if he did.